Equality in the South- Charlotte Pride 2013

When I got in my car tonight after working 30 non-stop hours in 2 days, I was exhausted. My head pounded, my ears were ringing, my feet were so sore it hurt to push the gas pedal, my back ached, my face was burnt and my voice was completely shot.

After about an hour of driving, the relief of caffeine, water and 3 ibuprofens melted away the stress and fatigue, letting in a tidal wave of thoughts, emotions, reflections and revelations.

My head raced, my heart swelled and I spent the last two hours of my trip deep in thought, alternating between fighting back tears and grinning like a fool.

I was overjoyed thinking back on the thousands of eager supporters who jumped at the opportunity to help change discrimination in our state and make the workplace safe for all LGBT employees.

I was thrilled basking of the memories of marching in a parade with 50,000 on-lookers screaming and cheering for an organization dedicated to securing their rights.

I was touched remembering the people who call Charlotte and the Triad home who were amazed by the acceptance and support their community was showing for all people.

I was encouraged to see and hear about so many companies and employers who treat their LGBT workers the way every employer should- the same as everyone else.

I was saddened thinking of the five people I talked to who, once they had outed themselves at work, mysteriously lost their jobs within a few weeks.

I was encouraged when I looked back on all of the couples, families and individuals of every sexual orientation, gender identity, race, nationality and age who mingled together and celebrated being in a space of equality, acceptance and love.

And I was proud. Proud of myself for the work I did, proud of Equality North Carolina for all of the amazing, important causes they fight for, proud of my leaders and volunteers for everything they accomplished and proud of the state I live in.

Proud of North Carolina?

I am all too aware of the political situation in North Carolina right now. I am often scared, angry, discouraged and downright overwhelmed by the discriminatory and unethical laws and practices our representatives are putting in place at break-neck speeds. 

But this weekend, I didn't see hate or discrimination. I didn't see fear or sadness. 

This weekend, I saw people in the street ready for change and willing to make it happen. Not for the sake of a political agenda, but for the sake of equality.

And that is why, although I wasn't born here, I am proud to call it home.

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